User talk:Matts

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--BenofZongo 17:14, 22 March 2007 (MST)The article is interesting, but also kind of depressing: I feel like if you take him at his word the bottom line is that you need a huge range of variables to match up between your participants to have a workable group. I mean, G, N, S, in six to eight players: the likelihood that all 8 have the same one is essentially zero. Furthermore, I've been organizing this group for about 4 years now, and I can tell you it's run ok even though I think that we've got a decent spread (mostly G and S, maybe 1-1.5 Ns). At the end, he sort of veers off and admits that its all a social issue: you either communicate and work out your differences or you don't. But then, why spend all this time in a lexical exercise trying to find the fundamentals of things if it doesn't actually help explain/solve/design anything?

--Matts 17:42, 22 March 2007 (MST)his point is that with a well-developed vocabulary and understanding of what it is that people actually want, you can game with a better understanding of people's motives and so forth. Knowing those fundamentals, understanding on an atomic level your goals, that kind of thing I personally think facilitates communication.

--BenofZongo 17:50, 22 March 2007 (MST)Again, a point well taken...here comes the "but": I feel like some of it is just lexical gymnastics, and I feel like with our whole votin' fiasco, that sort of thing may promote discord, not communication. I agree that it's an interesting exercise to think about things in these terms, and to use them to try to get a new perspective on how/why certain people play/GM in certain ways, and perhaps to inform yourself as to new approaches you might take. But I feel like the final take-home lesson can just be boiled down to: "try to understand that everyone comes to the table with their own motivations, try to understand those motivations and respect them, and try to create an environment where the best middle ground between those motivations is generated." But that's just fundamental group dynamics, and to define 50 vocab words to get it across seems excessive. On the other hand, I do definitely agree that his vocabulary is very useful for discussing games/game systems/players/GMs in a sort of abstract way, which is most of what we do anyways.

--Matts 17:56, 22 March 2007 (MST)So, for me what this does primarily is make me examine my own motivations. What do I really enjoy about roleplaying? What are my primary attitudes? It's important, the part he papers over: To classify someone as a "Gamist" or "Narrativist" strictly, well that misses the point. I think most of us enjoy a wide variety of gaming experiences (if anyone said they were rampantly opposed to "simulationism", they'd be lying, since that's a big part of all the roleplaying we've done and enjoyed). But with study, newer elements (my attempts to introduce a bit of narrativism, etc) become less unknown and hence less hostile.

I'm certainly far from saying this guy is right; he's kind of an ass (a respectable ass, but still). His quest, though - the act of critical examination of roleplaying, and looking at the constituent elements of this pastime we choose to indulge in - I personally feel a duty to myself to examine them, the unexamined life being not worth living and all that.

--BenofZongo 19:36, 22 March 2007 (MST)I agree, I don't care too much for his sort of "you're one, or the other" attitude: nevertheless, like you say, for the purposes of examination, especially self examination, it's not a bad set of tools (now watch the perverts go to work on that sentence...)

--Gdaze-- Eh, it is just a game. (ON NOES HANG ME OUT TO DRY EVIL!!!!!!!)That argument was so insanely stupid. Games are suppose to be fun... that is a given.. so of course by saying "It is only a game" or "It is just a game" to me doesn't mean what he said, about do what I say... But instead means "Hey relax, it isn't a big deal." But really... Eh I dunno. To me this whole thing is just saying very little with a whole lot of words. I feel playing with this guy would be like playing with some kinda hippy like counsuler. I mean he said he wrote this for people who don't like RPing... hey here is a thought... they never will! Cause they just don't like it! Jeez, this guy is full of himself. /END RANT

--67.183.58.127 12:38, 23 March 2007 (MST)I read that back when we were discussing DiTV. I think the guy has some insight, but he misses a lot of things. Most likely the guy would be decent to RP with, but I dont think I could hang out with him. There are key points that matter. Like, for instance, I am never going to be fulfilled with the kinds of games the rest of you guys are. It just isnt going to happen. Just like I am never going to like substanceless pure action movies like 300. His quantifications might help people to talk about what they really want from a game, and therefore find it. That I think is valuable. The rest of their hair splitting analyses probably boil down to nothing important.

--Gdaze-- Yeah, we all seem to be getting the same thing... and that is, he could have said a lot of that in just a few sentenances.